Tanya Brody

Copywriter | Marketing & Optimization Consultant | Customer Advocate

  • Home
  • About Me
  • Services
  • Samples
  • Blog
  • Newsletter
  • Courses
  • Contact Me
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms and Conditions
    • Share My Quiz on Social Media

Why Authenticity in Marketing Matters in Today’s Crazy Digital and IRL World

August 22, 2024 by Tanya Brody Leave a Comment

birds at the water on the beach

Do you even know what’s real anymore? I’m serious here. In a world overloaded with advertisements, sales pitches, and brands all clamoring for attention, it’s getting harder and harder to be heard above all the noise.

However, one thing stands out in a world where everyone is trying to be the same—authenticity. We’re living in a moment where consumers are becoming more discerning or to be more specific, their bull___ meters are going off more often. They’re seeing more and more AI created content, which means they’re learning to filter out what feels fake, overly polished, or robotic in favor of what’s real, relatable, and genuine.

But what does authenticity in marketing truly mean? And why is it so important for brands, especially in today’s markets, to stay true to themselves and their mission rather than “follow the crowd”?

The truth is, authenticity is a powerful marketing strategy and it’s essential for building strong, lasting relationships with current and potential customers.

By the way, to stick with the whole authenticity theme, this is a picture I took yesterday when I was at the beach.

What Does Authenticity Mean When It Comes to Marketing?

Authenticity in marketing means showing up as your true self, not trying to pretend to be someone or something you’re not. It’s about being real, being human, and being transparent with your audience.

I realize in our hyped-up, photo-perfect, always presenting our “best selves” world, this can be really hard. None of us want to admit that we have flaws, have failed, or that we may just be having a bad day. However, when we do this, we really are being our authentic selves, and that matters to our ideal customers. It actually draws in more of the “right” people for your company in and makes them want to stay.

And it’s actually easier to be authentic. Because you don’t have to think as hard about what you are and aren’t putting out there. Whether it’s through your messaging, your products, or the way you interact with your customers on and off social media, authenticity is about reflecting your core values, your humanity, and sharing your story in a way that resonates with others.

On the other hand, brand authenticity refers to how a brand is perceived by its customers and how genuine they consider that brand to be. This doesn’t mean you have to be perfect. In fact, consumers are more forgiving of brands that own up to their mistakes than those that try to cover them up. We’d rather see how the sausage is made than feel like we’re being lied to.

Authentic brands and authentic people build trust because they are constant and true in their actions, live up to their promises, and aren’t afraid to show their human side—whether that includes success or failure. They’re willing to admit when they’re wrong and show how they’re changing or pivoting to be better.

Most importantly, authentic brands and authentic people recognize that they’re in business for their customers more than for themselves. They’re set up to serve and to build meaningful relationships, not just make sales. Personally, I think this is what makes a brand “truly authentic.” When it’s all about who they serve and how they do good in the world.

Centering Authenticity as an Important Core Value for You and Your Brand

Consumers today crave genuine connections. They want to know the people behind the brand, what they stand for, and how those beliefs shape the products and services they offer. Authentic brands are the ones that share their core values openly, attracting a loyal audience that resonates with and appreciates those same values.

I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “vote with your wallet.” A lot more consumers are looking at a company’s core values before they fork over their hard-earned cash. They want to know that they’re supporting a company that upholds their same values and beliefs, which is why so many people become die-hard fans and customers of certain companies, brands, and even people.

When you’re authentic in your marketing, you’re not just building a brand—you’re building a community. And that’s where the magic happens. When customers feel a deep connection to your brand because it aligns with their own values and beliefs, they’re more likely to become repeat customers, recommend you to their friends and family, and ultimately become brand advocates.

Authenticity leads to increased customer retention, as people are more inclined to stick with brands they trust. Trust is built through transparency, consistency, constancy (as in being faithful and true to yourself and your brand), and delivering on promises. When a brand is open about its mission, values, and even its challenges, customers are more likely to form an emotional bond with that brand.

That emotional bond is a big part of what forms your community and what helps it expand, so this is something you want to nurture by keeping your authenticity at the core of your business.

Which leads me to…

Why Authenticity is So Important for Your Business’s Success

In today’s competitive landscape, standing out often means stepping away from the crowd and embracing what makes you unique. In other words, let your Freak Flag fly.

Following trends for the sake of fitting in, or even trying to capitalize on a particular trend can dilute your message, making it harder for your target audience to find and connect with you. Why should they pay attention to you when everyone else is doing the same thing? And how are they supposed to see you if you look and sound like everyone else? Authenticity ensures you attract the right people—those who appreciate your brand for what it truly stands for and who will get the most from what you have to offer.

Being your authentic self in marketing doesn’t just benefit your customers—it’s also good for your mental health and well-being. Running a business while trying to conform to trends that don’t align with your values can be exhausting and even demeaning.

But when act as your true self and let your company’s mission guide everything you do, you experience less stress and more fulfillment. After all, being in alignment with your own values and way of being is a big part of what attracts people to you.

Authenticity also helps build self-confidence. When you realize that people are drawn to you because of who you are—your quirks, values, and all—you start to feel more confident in your message and in whatever it is that you deliver. That confidence translates into stronger relationships, higher sales, and a deeper sense of purpose in your business.

It also means that you don’t have to create an alternate identity that you put on and take off for your business. Instead, you can just be you. You don’t have to remember how to be this “other person” when you’re interacting with your customers or second-guess yourself when you’re responding in any given situation.

Two hands making a heart with the text Authenticity is making a comeback. Authenticity in marketing

This is a screenshot of a slide from a course I am taking from the fabulous Mari Smith. I’m obviously very timely with this topic.

The Power of Being Authentic

Living authentically means owning who you are as a person first and a brand second. It means allowing your unique personality to shine through in your messaging, products, and interactions with customers. This means showing your human side, and revealing the driving force behind your business, whatever that may be.

Sharing personal anecdotes, whether they’re about overcoming challenges, celebrating victories, or failing outright and how you deal with that helps humanize your brand. Customers want to connect with brands run by real, relatable people, not large faceless corporations.

When you’re being your authentic self you create deeper connections with your audience, and those connections translate into consumer trust and brand loyalty. You know, that whole, “Know, Like and Trust” factor I talk about regularly. Authenticity is key to growing this relationship between you and your audience, and therefore building a successful business.

It also means holding to your own values and acting on those values through your brand and your company’s behavior.

For example, when companies like Patagonia speak out about their commitment to environmental sustainability, they’re not just paying lip service—they’re reflecting their core values. Patagonia was formed by outdoor people for outdoor people. They’re all about keeping this planet safe and beautiful for everyone on it. And they show this in their advertising, their products, their company initiatives and the way they treat their employees. They also “put their money where their mouth is” by giving back to the planet. They say right on their website, “Earth is now our only shareholder.”

This kind of authenticity helps them build a genuine connection with customers who care deeply about these same issues. The result? Increased customer retention and a loyal, engaged community.

I live in Ventura, CA, where Patagonia is based. Everyone I know who works for this company sings their praises and says they live up to what they claim they do, 100%. And it has built them an incredibly devoted following of customers, which then lets them give back to their community and to the planet.

That’s authenticity in action, right there.

How Do You Show Authenticity in Marketing?

It’s one thing to say you’re authentic, but how do you actually show it in your marketing efforts? Here are some strategies to help you align your marketing with your brand’s true nature:

1. Share Your Personal Stories

Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable. Share your wins, your struggles, and your losses. Tell your audience about the journey that brought you to where you are today. Stories of personal growth, perseverance, and determination resonate deeply with customers because they feel real and relatable.

More importantly, people want to know who they’re dealing with. They want to hear your stories because they want to know how your experience can help them. And they want to understand why it is you do what you do. All of these help build that “Know, Like, and Trust” factor and they let you have self-expression within your business. They make you and your business more human.

2. Lead with Your Values

Everything you do in your business should be rooted in your core values. Whether it’s your product design, customer service, or content strategy, show people what you believe by living into what you believe. This is what attracts like-minded customers who are drawn to your authentic self and who want to support what you do.

3. Be Transparent

Transparency is one of the most important aspects of brand authenticity. If you make a mistake, own up to it. If your company is going through a tough time, be honest about it. If you are making a pivot in your business, tell people what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. Especially if it affects them.

Consumers appreciate brands that aren’t afraid to admit their flaws because it makes them more human. They also appreciate businesses that are willing to tell them the truth when so many others try to cover up what they’re doing or are just plain dishonest.

4. Let Your Personality Shine

You, and by extension your brand have a unique voice—use it! Whether it’s humorous, serious, or somewhere in between, let your brand’s personality be open and clear across all your marketing channels. As I said earlier, let your Freak Flag fly! It will help you make that authentic connection with your audience and show them they’re in the right place.

Tell your people about your pets, your hobbies, your latest passion. Let them know why this matters to you and why it may matter to them. Share your feelings and opinions. Yes, even those opinions. People want to know who they’re dealing with. And while you may be afraid of driving some customers away, you’ll find that others will be attracted to you because of your opinions.

(Caveat: Please don’t be rude or express a desire for violence. The world doesn’t need any more of that nonsense. But please do let people know where you stand.)

Customers love people who show their true selves. We all want to know who we’re dealing with, unique quirks, perspectives, and all. This creates a strong sense of connection that can’t be faked and will benefit you and your business.

5. Show How You Serve Your Customers

This one is huge.

As I’m sure you’ve heard me say regularly (and if not, I’ll say it again) you are in business to serve your customers. Whatever it is that you have should help people solve a problem they have and/or help them reach their goals.

So show everyone how you do this!

There are lots of ways to do this, including:

  • Testimonials

  • Customer interviews

  • Case studies

  • Features and benefits statements

  • Highlighting community outreach

However you do it, show your audience the real-world impact of your products or services. This builds credibility and reassures potential customers that you’re committed to their success and the world’s success.

photo of man holding mic
Photo by Matheus Bertelli on Pexels.com

Yes, Leading with Authenticity Matters

Leading with authenticity isn’t just about your marketing efforts—it’s about creating a culture of authenticity throughout your entire business and your life. It takes courage to be vulnerable, to show up as your true self in a world that often pressures us to conform.

Being a square peg in a round hole is scary. We all want to fit in. By sharing your authentic self with your audience, you are giving them their place to “fit in.” Even if that place is “with those weirdoes” according to society at large.

Leading with authenticity is a long-term strategy that leads to real, meaningful results.

Authentic brands attract more than customers. They also attract employees who are aligned with their values and mission. This fosters a stronger internal culture, which, in turn, improves customer experiences.

Authentic brands also attract notoriety and respect. When you live into your authenticity, people appreciate that, even if they don’t necessarily agree with you. A lot of people and companies have gotten a lot of organic exposure by doing this. Patagonia is just one example of this. There are thousands of others.

Being Our Authentic Selves in an AI World

I’m going to be completely honest and transparent here.

Up until this section, I used ChatGPT to write this blog post. Or at least, the first draft of this blog post. Then I went through and edited that first draft heavily to make it my own. There are parts that I added, parts I adapted and even some parts that I kept from the original draft.

If you want an interesting exercise, go through this post again and see if you can figure out which sentences I wrote and which ones ChatGPT gave me.

AI is a very useful tool.

But it is just that, a tool.

No Large Language Model like ChatGPT, Genesis, or Meta AI can replicate you and your authenticity. If we ever get to that point, humanity is in big trouble in my opinion.

However, AI can help you get to your final product a lot faster than if you come up with absolutely everything on your own.

When I ask business owners why they don’t have an email list or why they don’t email their subscribers regularly I get two common replies:

  1. “I never know what to write!”

  2. “I don’t have the time to write emails.”

When it comes down to it, these are both symptoms of the same problem. Not having a good place to start.

Using AI as a Tool to Express Your Brand’s Authenticity

As far as I’m concerned, the best use of AI to create content for your brand and your business is to get yourself past that problem of not having a good place to start.

Instead of spending time staring at a blank screen, wondering what the heck you should write, ask your favorite AI platform. It can give you some great ideas.

The trick is knowing what information to give that platform, so it can give you ideas that work for your audience and your business. Then you can take those ideas and run with them, adding your own authentic touch and expressing your unique quality and perspective.

When it comes to emails, most people need a subject line to focus on and a writing prompt to get them started. Honestly, I have a list of generic ones you can download as a lead magnet on this website. But it’s easier and faster if you can start with something relevant to your business and your audience.

That’s exactly what I’ll show you how to create with your chosen AI platform in my AI-Powered Subject Line Generator Workshop.

You’ll find out what information you need to give your chosen AI so that it can give you exactly what you’re looking for. And you’ll find out how to tell it to refine its responses, if you didn’t get what you want the first time.

The workshop costs $49 and you’ll walk away with a list of subject lines and writing prompts customized for your business and your audience. You’ll also have a repeatable system that you can use to create more subject lines and writing prompts, and refine them to whatever you happen to be focused on in any given month or quarter. That way, you’re always creating relevant content that builds trust with your audience and drives your business goals.

This workshop has been recorded and I am currently in the process of getting it ready for release. If you want in, join the waiting list to find out when the AI-Powered Subject Line Generator Workshop is released, so you can go through it at your own pace.

JOIN THE AI-POWERED SUBJECT LINE GENERATOR WORKSHOP WAITING LIST NOW

That way, you can share your individual expression and unique personality with your people quickly and easily, so you can spend more time being your authentic self, doing what you love to do.

Filed Under: Business Tools, Email Tips and Tricks, Good Business Practices Tagged With: Artificial Intelligence, Awareness, community, Copywriting, customer avatar, customer persona, customer relationship, Email, Email Content, Email Marketing, Email Nurturing, ideal customer, Know Your Audience, marketing, marketing message

Why You Really Need to Grow Your Own Email List

August 14, 2023 by Tanya Brody Leave a Comment

Email List
Email List

This blog post was originally written in 2016, just after the rise and fall of a social media platform called Blab. Since then, many other social media platforms have come and gone, or are currently falling apart, like Twitter/X. Which just reinforces my point below about why you need your own email list. I’ve updated this post to include current information and give you more tips on how to start your own email list, so you never have to worry about losing your audience to a social media failure again.

Blab is Dead. Long Live Blab.

This is the title of an article on Medium, written by Shaan Puri, the CEO of Blab, explaining why he shut the social media platform down permanently on August 12th 2016.

In the article he explains that Blab was created as a hackathon project. They grew this crazy project, which they built in 3 weeks, to 3.9 million users in less than a year. Yay for them.

But then they shut it down.

Which caused nearly 4 million people to lose their connections to each other via Blab.

And a lot of entrepreneurs, social media influencers and business people lost their audience on Blab. That sucks. Especially if, for some odd reason, Blab was the only place these people paid attention to those businesses.

“Well, yeah,” you say. “But those folks can find those businesses on other social media platforms.”

Yes, they can. But will they?

That’s the kicker. People tend to pay attention to what’s in front of them. If someone follows you on one social media platform, they may not follow you on others.

And if that social media platform suddenly disappears, like Blab did…

Or if people flee a particular social media platform because it gets bought by someone they don’t like, who changes everything about it, as is the current case with Twitter/X…

Can you guarantee that every member of your audience will find you somewhere else? Can you rest assured that your audience on another social media platform will grow by just as many followers as you lost on your other one?

No, you can’t.

Perhaps people just prefer a certain social media platform and won’t use another one. Perhaps they’ve got too many other things they’re following on other social media platforms and adding you will overwhelm them.

Guess what. If you didn’t collect email addresses from those folks, you’re stuck with no way to contact them directly. Which is why you really need to have an email list.

Why Do I Need an Email List?

“I’ve already got a great following on social media. Why would I duplicate that?” I hear you say.

Yes, you probably do. But, what happens if one of your social media channels changes drastically or disappears (like in the case of Blab, and Twitter, and any number of other social media platforms in the last few years)? Or worse yet, what happens if your account is deleted (either by mistake or because the social media company believes you violated their rules)? Can you still contact all of your followers? Not without their email addresses.

Email is more personal than social media. We all “know” people on social media (meaning we’ve friended or followed them, but we’ve never met them in person). But when an email hits our inboxes it tends to feel more like a real relationship. And people want to buy from people they like and have a relationship with.

Think about it. You may check your social media channels a few times a day. How many times do you check your email? Most people check their email boxes multiple times a day. We’re still used to getting important messages via email. Your message could be very important to some, or all, of your subscribers.

How Do I Start an Email List?

To start an email list, you need five things:

  • An email service provider (ESP): MailerLite, Drip, and ActiveCampaign are all good examples of ESPs. There are dozens of others out there.
  • A way to collect email addresses: This can be a static or pop-up form on your website, or a landing page dedicated solely to collecting email addresses.
  • A lead magnet, or opt-in bribe: This can be a one-page resource guide, a chapter from a book, a coupon, or anything else you come up with. You want to give people a reason to sign up.
  • A “thank you” page: A thank you page tells people you’ve received their email address and helps you continue your relationship with your new subscribers.
  • A “welcome” email sequence: This gets sent out as soon as someone subscribes to your list. It’s an acknowledgement of receiving their email address and letting them know they’ll receive useful information on a regular basis.

String these together and you’ve got a perfect lead generation funnel sending email addresses to your list.

Here’s a little more detail on each step:

Email Service Providers

Email service providers are basically SaaS (software as a service) companies that help you collect email addresses and send bulk emails while being in accordance with the CAN SPAM act (yes, that’s really what it’s called, it makes me giggle every time I read it).

As mentioned above, there are dozens of them out there. An ESP collects and stores email addresses (or subscribers) in your account and lets you send out emails to them whenever you have something to share, on a certain schedule, or when someone triggers an automation sequence.

MailerLite offers a “free” version for folks who have under 1000 subscribers. It doesn’t give you all of the functionality and automation of a paid account, but it’s a good place to start.

Drip has a 14-day free trial and a starting price of $39 per month. The price goes up as your list gets larger. But their automation system is pretty slick. They’re geared toward e-commerce customers, but you can use their system for any type of business.

ActiveCampaign is a good option for any business that expects to grow quickly. It’s more expensive at $49 a month, but it also comes with more bells and whistles.

Lots of other ESPs offer free and trial memberships. These are just three I have experience with.

Forms and Landing Pages

 Your email service provider will have static and pop-up forms you can install on your website. These are usually HTML code snippets that you copy and paste into your website code. Some have plugins you can install on your WordPress site.

You can add as many or as few fields as you want to your email subscriber form, but generally speaking, the fewer fields, the better. Studies have shown that people are more likely to click on the “submit” button if they don’t have to give up tons of information about themselves.

Email address is required (that’s sort of a no-brainer). You can also add first and last name, and other identifiers that you may want to know about your audience. Most ESPs will also let you add radio buttons or dropdown menus for multiple choice questions.

A landing page (also referred to as a “squeeze page” if it’s collecting email addresses) is a single page, dedicated solely to collecting emails. Check out my landing page to see how simple they can be. And download the lead magnet while you’re there, to get an idea of how to create one.

Lead Magnet

A lead magnet is something you give away as an incentive to get people to give you their email addresses. (That’s why the other common term for them is “opt-in bribe.”) Your lead magnet can be as simple or as complicated as you want it to be.

If you go to my landing page, you’ll see a picture of the lead magnet on the right side of the page. It’s a PDF resource guide. It took me a couple of hours to make, including formatting and converting it to a PDF. But it’s something people are interested in, so they enter their email addresses to get it.

You can use any of these things as a lead magnet:

  • Checklists
  • Resource guides
  • A chapter of a book
  • An entire eBook
  • A coupon for your product
  • A free trial of your service

The important thing is, you want your lead magnet to be something useful that people will download. You want it to be interesting, and you want it to benefit your new subscribers so they remember you when you email them.

Thank You Page 

So, usually when you subscribe to someone’s email list, you get a message that says something to the effect of “email submitted” and that’s about it. Or you get a page that says, “We’ve gotten your email address, thanks.”

This cuts your relationship with your new subscriber short. It’s kind of like saying, “I got your email address, that’s all I really care about.”

The better thing to use is what’s commonly called a “Thank You And…” page. This page thanks the subscriber for subscribing, tells them their lead magnet is on the way and it asks them to do something additional.

Take a look at this Thank You page. It’s what you see after you download the lead magnet from my landing page.

I thank my subscribers for downloading my lead magnet. I let them know that it will arrive in their inbox and to look in their Spam folder if it doesn’t show up.

Then I’m giving them an opportunity to buy something from me. It’s relevant to the thing they just downloaded, and it will help them with the problem they’re having.

This is commonly referred to as a “tripwire.” The psychology behind this is people will say yes to something immediately after they’ve just said yes to something else.

Pro Tip: Don’t let new subscribers download your lead magnet from your Thank You page. Send them an email instead. This does 3 important things:

  • It verifies their email address as valid because you’ll know if their email bounced.
  • It gets them to open your email, which is good for your deliverability rating.
  • It tells their internet service provider (ISP) that they want to hear from you, so your emails should sail through the spam filter.

Email Welcome Sequence

You need to have at least one automated email set up in your ESP and ready to go out as soon as someone subscribes to your list. It doesn’t need to be long or complicated. All it really needs to say is:

  • Welcome to the community, thanks for subscribing.
  • Here is the download link for the lead magnet.
  • More cool stuff will be coming your way every (day, week, month, however often you intend to send stuff to your email list).
  • Thanks so much and enjoy the content.

As soon as your ESP receives the new email address from your form or landing page, it will send this email to your new subscriber.

If you want to write a full email welcome sequence, this blog post will show you how.

This starts building the relationship between you and your new subscriber. The more emails you send, the more the relationship flourishes. They grow to know, like, and trust you, and they’ll buy from you.

That’s it. You’ve set up your email list. Now you’ll have a way to capture email addresses from your audience. And, you’ll be able to stay in direct contact with them on a regular basis.

Okay, What do I do Next?

You tell your audience on social media about your cool new lead magnet and you direct them to your landing page. You can also drive paid traffic to your website or landing page. You may already use paid traffic on your chosen social media channels anyway, so use it to get folks to download your lead magnet.

Once you’ve got some names on your email list, you start writing content regularly so you have something to send.

What Do I Write?

That depends on your business.

I send two emails every week. The first email usually promotes a blog post like this one. The second is usually a longer email that gives my subscribers more useful information about email marketing and how they can use it in their businesses.

I also receive a lot of these weekly or monthly emails.

Some of them are similar to mine, with a short note and links to that day’s or week’s blog post. Others are a quick note from the person I’m following and a long list of cool articles that person found to share with me. Some are newsletters with information that is exclusively for subscribers to the email list.

You can also send out weekly or monthly specials on your products. How about a “deal of the week” coupon? I’m sure you can come up with all sorts of ideas.

To get you started, I recommend that you check out my lead magnet, which is a list of 30 Subject Lines to Keep Your Subscribers Opening and Reading Every Email. Plus, you’ll get a writing prompt for each subject line, so you’re not stuck staring at “the white screen of death.”

Click on the button below to download your list of 30 Subject Lines and Writing Prompts now.

DOWNLOAD YOUR LIST OF 30 SUBJECT LINES AND WRITING PROMPTS NOW

Now Go Start Your Email List

Do yourself and your audience the kindness of giving them a reliable way to stay in touch with you. You can find links to every tool you need to create your own email list in this blog post. Trust me, you’ll be happy you did.

Filed Under: Good Business Practices Tagged With: community, Copywriting, Email List, Email Marketing, marketing, small business owner, your business

Fanning the Flames of Your Buyer’s Journey – Or Why Your Potential Customers Aren’t Buying Right Away

May 15, 2023 by Tanya Brody Leave a Comment

Fire
Fire


You’ve put together social media and PPC campaigns to promote your product or service. You’ve sent out emails. You’ve built landing pages and sales pages.

You’ve got an email capture form on every page of your website. You’re offering a lead magnet/downloadable freebie or a coupon to get people to opt-in.

You’re doing everything right. Everything all of the marketing gurus and the blogs say you should be doing.

But no one’s buying.

No one is coming into your store, coupon in hand. No one is clicking your “Buy Now” buttons. No one is calling for an estimate.

“Why?” You scream. “Why aren’t you people buying? I’m doing everything right! You’re supposed to respond like Pavlovian dogs, according to everything I’ve read, and seen, and paid obscene amounts of money to learn the secrets I have to offer…”

Really?

Why should they buy? Is your customer poised and ready to buy anything and everything they see, hear about or try? Or is your customer overwhelmed, even jaded by the amount of advertising they see every day?

See, everyone, regardless of what problem they need to solve, has a point at which that problem is foremost in their minds. I like to refer to it as being that thing that is on their desk and ***ON FIRE!!!*** (Yes, the emphasis is deliberate. Because that’s how your customers feel.)

That’s the point when they finally come into your store or click your buttons, or email you to ask questions. Truth is, your customer may be genuinely interested. They may just not be ready to buy.

“But why?” I hear you pout. “Why aren’t they ready to buy? I do all the right things. Dammit! They should just buy!”

Yes, they should. But they have to be at the right place on their buyer’s journey.

The what?

The Buyer’s Journey

There’s something called the buying cycle, or the buyer’s journey. Everyone goes through this cycle (including you) every time they make a purchase.

It has 4 basic phases:

  • Awareness: A potential customer becomes aware of your brand and your product.
  • Research: A potential customer researches your product to see if it will solve their problem.
  • Consideration: A potential customer weighs your product against others to determine if your product is a better solution than others available on the market.
  • Purchase: A potential customer buys your product and becomes an actual customer.
Buyer's Journey

Until your potential customer reaches the consideration and purchase phases, nothing you do will affect their desire to click that buy button or hand over their credit card.

Another way to think of the buyer’s journey is to look at it in terms of how “aware” your potential customer may be.

Gene Schwartz, legendary ad man and copywriter chronicled the 5 stages of awareness of the average potential customer:

  1. Unaware – Having no clue there is even a problem in their lives.
  2. Problem Aware – Knowing they have a problem but have no idea how to solve it or even where to start.
  3. Solution Aware – Aware there is a solution out there, but not really knowing what it is and where to find it.
  4. Product Aware – Knowing there are products and services out there that will definitely solve their problem, but not sure which one will work best for them.
  5. Most Aware – Knowing which products and services are available and having a good idea of which one will solve their specific problem with the most desired outcome.

The last two to three phases fall into the research, consideration, and purchase phases in the image above. Ultimately, that’s where you need to catch your potential customers in their buyer’s journey.

So what’s a savvy business owner to do? How do you lead your potential customers along this buyer’s journey and to your checkout page?

Funnily enough, you probably have all of that set up and ready to go. You may just need to tweak it a bit.

Becoming the Guide

It doesn’t matter how hard you try. If people aren’t ready to buy, they’re not going to respond to all of your advertising, follow-up and selected promotions. Your customer has to have a problem. They have to need something. And until they need something, you’re not the solution to their problem.

So how do you fan the flames of your buyer’s journey? How do you make things so hot that they just need to make that purchase or sign the contract to engage your services?

You guide your potential customers along every step of the buyer’s journey.

I’m going to get a bit geeky on you for a moment.

Joseph Campbell, the famous anthropologist, documented something called the “hero’s journey.” If you’ve seen Star Wars (preferably the original trilogy) you’ve seen this journey in action. This is what the buyer’s journey is based off of.

At the start of their journey, the hero must receive the call to adventure, refuse the call and then meet their mentor, the person who guides them along their journey to their final victory or accomplishment. In Star Wars (the original trilogy), the hero is Luke Skywalker. The guide is first Obi-Wan (Ben)Kenobi, then Yoda.

In the buyer’s journey, your potential customer is the hero. You are the guide.

Yoda sitting in his seat on the Jedi council being the guide - buyer's journey

Really.

A lot of companies make this mistake. They assume they are the hero in the buyer’s journey. They position themselves as the hero in all of their marketing, which turns off the buyer completely.

If you want to get the customer, you are the mentor. Your job is to help the buyer to find their destiny. Which is ultimately your product or service. So channel your inner Yoda and learn to guide your potential customer to their ultimate destiny; becoming your customer.

Fanning the Flames of the Buyer’s Journey

I always joke with my clients that until their marketing needs are on fire on their desk, they don’t think of me. So I keep tossing matches at their desk until they pay attention. This isn’t far from the truth in terms of the buyer’s journey.

This is true for any potential customer of any type. Whether you’re a brick-and-mortar shop, an online retailer or provide a service (like I do) you have to consider where your potential customer is with their buyer’s journey and fan that flame.

Your potential customer isn’t going to come into your shop and buy a shirt until they need a shirt. That has nothing to do with you. You can’t casually spill wine all over their best dress shirt to increase their need. That would be rude and unconscionable, not to mention impossible in most situations.

But you can gently remind them of your existence (toss matches) until they realize that they need a new shirt. And as I mentioned before, you already have most of this in place.

Here’s how:

  • Retargeting: Facebook, Google Search and Google Display Network all allow you to retarget ads to anyone who has visited your website. The allotted times vary, but each has a minimum of 30 days. This is a great way to keep your product or service top-of-mind.
  • Email autoresponders: You should have a welcome sequence for every email address you collect. Emails can be as close together as once a day or as far apart as 3-4 days, depending on what you’re selling. Five emails is a standard sequence, but you can use more or less, depending on your buying cycle. Each email should guide your potential customer along their buyer’s journey.
  • Nurture emails: Once a potential customer has gone through your email autoresponder/welcome sequence, they should be added to your newsletter or regular nurture email list. That way you’re still showing up in their inbox on a regular basis.
  • Coupons and discounts: Your customer may not take advantage of the deal you’ve offered right now. But keep offering. Sooner or later, they’ll need your solution and take advantage of your offer.

Here’s a really important tip;

Help, Help, Help, Sell.

This advice was given to me years ago by Nick Usborne, a well-known web copywriter and marketer. He promotes the idea that to get customers, you have to give them something in return.

You don’t want to overwhelm your potential customers with opportunities to buy. This is a very common mistake and one that has caused me to unsubscribe from many email lists.

You must give to receive. Give your customers useful information. Give them a reason to trust you, your product and your brand. That way, once they’ve reached that point of comparison and purchase, you’ll be the one they turn to for that solution they’re seeking.

You have to build a relationship where your subscribers know, like, and trust you before most of them are willing to shell out their hard-earned cash on whatever it is you’re selling.

Help your potential customers do their research by directing them to appropriate blog posts that will convince them you’ve got the right solution to their problems.

Commiserate with them and show them how you’ve already solved the problem they’re having.

Become that trusted expert that demonstrates your knowledge about their problem and shows them the clear steps they need to take to solve it. (Including using your product or service as one or more of those steps.)

Giving your subscribers valuable information that they can use, even if it is part of your sales pitch, builds that relationship and helps fuel that fire.

Your Customer’s Need – On Fire

Sooner or later, your diligence will pay off. But you need to be patient. Someone may have downloaded your case study or coupon, but they may take a while to purchase.

The most important thing to remember in marketing is that people are incredibly distracted. They have a lot going on in their lives. Until you’re top-of-mind, they’re not going to pay attention to you or your marketing.

Meanwhile, you just keep flicking helpful matches at their desk until it does catch fire. Then you’ll get the results you’re looking for.

Nurture Emails Are One of the Best Ways to Flick Those Matches

Of course, the best and easiest way to deliver all of that valuable information I mentioned above is through regular nurture emails.

And while I’m certain if you were face to face with your potential customers, you’d be able to give that information easily, you may freeze up if you have to actually sit down and write something (gasp)!

Fear not!

The truth is, everyone has a nurture email type they’ll open, read, and buy from.

You just need to know which one is best to fan the flames of your subscribers’ need and desire. Then writing those weekly nurture emails will be easy as flicking those matches.

You can find out which nurture email type will ignite that fire in your subscribers’ hearts by clicking on the button below to take my 60-second quiz.

DISCOVER WHICH NURTURE EMAIL TYPE IGNITES YOUR SUBSCRIBERS’ FIRE NOW


I promise, once you start that fire, it will burn until they absolutely have to buy to quench the flames.

This post was originally written in July of 2016 and recently updated with new, more relevant information.

Filed Under: Good Business Practices Tagged With: Buyer's Journey, Copywriting, customer persona, entrepreneur, small business owner, your business, your customer

Can You Use AI to Write Your Marketing Emails?

January 17, 2023 by Tanya Brody Leave a Comment

Everyone is up in arms about how artificial intelligence (AI) is taking over marketing and copywriters and marketers are going to lose their jobs or become obsolete.

Yeah yeah yeah yeah….

All of this came to a head when ChatGPT became the big story last December and everyone was predicting it would change the way everyone did everything, from writing computer code to writing the Great American Novel.

This especially became a story in the digital marketing world, because so many people predicted this marvelous new tool would replace copywriters.

Several digital marketing gurus jumped on this bandwagon and created courses purporting to show you how to use AI to “revolutionize your business.” I’ve seen a few that claim you can use AI to write all of your marketing copy in minutes too.

Whatever.

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Business Tools, Email Tips and Tricks Tagged With: Artificial Intelligence, Copywriting, Email Marketing, small business owner

How to Write Emails that Convert – Part 1: The Subject Line

July 27, 2020 by Tanya Brody Leave a Comment

For the next few weeks, I’m writing a new series about how to structure and write emails that convert. I’ll go through each section of an email to show you how to make it stronger, so it gets your subscribers to take the next action you want them to take. Today, we’re starting at the top, with the subject line.

Everyone always asks, “What’s the best subject line?”

The answer is, “The one that gets opened.”

Yes, that’s very vague. But so is the question.

Subject lines come in many lengths and types. Some people say, “Keep it short.” Others say, “Make it direct and to the point.” Still more folks say, “It doesn’t matter what you do, as long as your subscriber clicks on it.”

All of that is true, depending on what you’re trying to do.

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Copywriting Tricks Tagged With: Copywriting, Email Marketing

  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • …
  • 6
  • Next Page »

Search

612-730-9828

Categories

Get My Free Guide: 30 Subject Lines to Keep Your Subscribers Opening and Reading Every Email

Click on the button below to get your free guide, including subject lines and writing prompts to stimulate your creativity and build your relationship with your audience.

What People are Saying

I am very impressed by your writing. You have a lovely, flowing style that reads very naturally and hits just the right tone for our audience. As they say, it takes great effort to write pieces that read easily.
- Joan Nyberg, FindLaw Team Lead

Tanya has taken on some projects for CAFÉ, my copywriting agency. Her writing is focused, clear and compelling. She takes the time to understand her subject and her audience – and does an excellent job of finding the prospective customers’ need and appealing to it. I would highly recommend Tanya and her results-driven copywriting.
-- Kelvin Parker, The Entrepreneurs’ Copywriter

Leadpages Certified Conversion Marketer

AWAI Professional Writer’s Alliance

Professional Writer's Alliance

AWAI Circle of Success Member

Circle of Success Member

Copyright © 2025 · Genesis Sample Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in